Sunday, 25 October 2015

Conclusion to our round-the-world trip - we have to do it again!

After thousands of $$ lighter and 50 shades darker, we are back, with unforgettable memories and experiences. We have travelled to 18 countries in 240 days. These 240 days opened our eyes, our hearts and, most importantly, our desire to see more.

In these 8 months, we only scratched the surface of each country, but we are already awed by the beautiful landscapes, the amazing wildlife, the fascinating culture and incredible people, be it fellow travellers or locals. The variety of food is just the icing on the cake. Let us share some of our experiences and hopefully they will help you or inspire you with your future travels. In our humble and personal opinions, amongst the countries we visited: 
  1. The most beautiful country for landscapes: New Zealand. We also liked Vietnam for its countryside and Bolivia for its Salt Flat (Salar de Uyuni) and dessert scenery.   
  2. The best place for wildlife: Galapagos Islands. We also had a great time with the wildlife in Australia, although we only saw a very small part of Australia.
  3. The most culturally interesting country: Japan. Hands down.
  4. Country with the saddest history: Cambodia.
  5. Country with best food: Of course Li thinks China, and Lars thinks Thailand. To be more impartial, New Zealand has good quality food and Malaysia offers a nice variety.    
Because we were mainly after nature, our top 20 favourite places are:
  1. Galapagos Islands, Ecuador
  2. Salt Flat and the surrounding, Bolivia
  3. Bora Bora, French Polynesia
  4. The Great Barrier Reef, Australia
  5. Perito Moreno Glacier, Argentina
  6. Sapa Valley, Vietnam
  7. The Great Wall, China
  8. Iguazu Falls, Argentina
  9. Tokyo, Japan
  10. Lake Tekabo, New Zealand
  11. Queenstown, New Zealand
  12. Whitsunday Islands, Australia
  13. The Great Ocean Road, Australia
  14. Maya Bay, Phi Phi Islands, Thailand
  15. Miyajima Island, Japan
  16. Ha Long Bay, Vietnam
  17. Royal Botanic Garden in Kandy, Sri Lanka
  18. Santiago, Chile 
  19. Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
  20. Dubai, UAE
Top 10 most memorable activities for us:
  1. Swimming with sea lions, turtles and sting rays in Galapagos
  2. Snorkeling with black-tip reef sharks in Bora Bora
  3. Sleeping overnight on the Maya Bay beach in Phi Phi Ley, Thailand
  4. Overnight motorbike tour from Hoi An to Hue in Vietnam
  5. Helicopter ride to the St. Joseph Glacier and Mount Cook in New Zealand
  6. A night out in Tokyo, Japan
  7. Doing nothing in Koh Lanta, Thailand
  8. Snorkeling in Whitsunday Islands and the southern tip of the Great Barrier Reef, Australia
  9. Cruising in Ha Long Bay, Vietnam   
  10. Driving a dune buggy in the dessert, Dubai
In addition to all the great places we've been to there are some places we didn't enjoy that much. Here are our top 8 places to avoid:

  1. Bali, Indonesia
  2. Inca Trail, Peru
  3. Koh Phi Phi, Thailand
  4. Pantenal, Brazil
  5. Nazca Lines, Peru
  6. Potosí, Bolivia
  7. La Paz, Bolivia
  8. Arequipa, Peru
And the tour operator to avoid at all cost in South America is G Adventures!

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Really. I am no longer scared of bugs and insects unless they reach a certain size. I welcome lizards, frogs and bats. They are the good guys. Germ phobia. What's that? :P

Travelling is not the same as taking a holiday. It's hard work. It requires a lot of planning and spontaneity at the same time. It is especially difficult to plan the next steps while you want to enjoy the moment at your present location. There were good days and bad days. Good days are the times where you were blown away by the scenery and natural beauty. Bad days are when you got ripped off by mean locals or fell sick. But how you remember and enjoy a place or activity all depends on your perception, which can be adjusted to make you happier. I learned a lot about myself on this trip. First thing to work on is PATIENCE!

After 8 months of travelling, the conclusion is that we are extremely lucky to live in Europe. There is a lot of poverty in the developing countries especially in Peru, Bolivia, Indonesia, Thailand, Cambodia and Vietnam. It's hard to imagine the devastating living conditions, but when we saw them with our own eyes, we were speechless. We need to cherish the lifestyle we have in Europe/UK and be grateful everyday. Of course, next step for us is to adjust back to the Western prices. :P No more delicious meals for £2, fresh fruit shake for £1 or cheap taxi's, clothes, hotels etc. But at least we don't have to worry about sunburn, malaria, diarrhoea, or being ripped off. :)

Reflecting on travelling. It is a bit like religion. There are two kind of people – those who travel and those who don’t. It can be addictive, obsessive and passionate; It gives you peace, joy and happiness; it motivates you and gives you meaning of life; however, it doesn't make you fear death less, but it makes you have less regrets when you die. We believe that life is about creating experiences and memories rather than accumulating assets. So, we have to do it again in the future!

Day 238 to 240 Dubai - Ultra-modern city and it's all about status symbol

13 to 15 July

Our last stop before heading back to London was Dubai. We always wanted to visit this legendary mega-shopping city but never had the opportunity.

We arrived quite late in the evening and were first welcomed by the hot air. It felt like being put into a big oven for roasting! Next, we were tricked into taking the more expensive Lexus taxi to our hotel - can't believe that we got ripped off after 8 months of travelling! Sigh. Our hotel was in down town and we were pleasantly surprised by the size and the view. We could see the Burj Kalifa and the Dubai Fountain from our balcony. Only the sand on the balcony reminded us that this city is in the middle of the dessert.

We only had three days in Dubai: 

Day 1: We didn't manage to make it to the Dubai Mall until lunch time. They were not kidding when they said Dubai Mall is big. What I found impressive is that all the brands, from Europe to UK, North America and Australia are all there! We had lunch in the Food Court, because that was the only designated area for eating and drinking due to Ramadan. (oh yes, we never fail to hit the major holiday in the countries we travel to!)

We then did some shopping. At least the mall was not crowded at all because of Ramadan. After a few hours checking out the mall including the Aquarium display (quite nice) and the gold souk, we went for an early dinner. We both wanted the Berlin Döner Kebab we saw other people eating. The fast food chain did not disappoint us. I loved it! We realised that most of the people are actually hanging out at the Food Court instead of shopping.

While we were waiting to meet Lars' friend Ansgar, what did I see?! TIM HORTON'S. This made me very happy!! I bought my favourite French Cruller, which I have not tasted for at least 3 years! While the boys were catching up, I had my donut fix. Thinking about it now, I should have bought a dozen. :P

Apparently Ansgar and Lars had not seen each other for at least a decade and they claimed both had not changed a bit! After some catching up, we all went to the Dubai Fountain and it was impressive! Very sophisticated and completely in sync with the music. Apparently, it's a different song every half hour. Ansgar then took us to the Neos bar at The Address Hotel and we had a great view up there.

After we said goodbye to Ansgar, we went to Burj Kalifa. By that time, there were only a few people left and we didn't have to queue. Man, the first time I saw the night view, I couldn't believe it. It was so unreal and futuristic. I felt like being in a sci-fi movie. The Bangkok night view was impressive in its size, but the Dubai night view was impressive in the design of individual buildings. I felt we were on a different planet.   

Day 2: Lars signed us up for a dessert safari. He found a company which lets you self drive a dune buggy as opposed to be driven in a car. Good choice. It was not only more fun but also less wobbly compared to sitting in the car...

It was a long drive from the hotel to the dessert. We then got strapped into the buggy. For the first half hour, it was really fun and I have to admit I was a bit scared at the beginning. I was soon overcome by adrenaline rush. Half way through the track, our guides asked us to quickly go back inside of the guide's car (we were the only ones doing the tour). As soon as we got inside, a sand storm and thunder storm hit us. It was fun initially, but not so much when the guide drove us around to find more shelter and avoid the lightening! I became car sick and it almost never happened before.

After almost an hour, we went back to the buggy and finished our tour. I even got some bonus driving by the guide at the end. He went to the big dunes and at one point, we were facing vertically down! We also signed up for the sunset buffet, which was average at best. I got a short camel ride. Getting off the bloody camel was worse than riding the dune buggy. I didn't feel so good after that for the rest of the evening.  

Day 3: We checked out the Gold Souk in the Deira area. It was pretty quiet, because of Ramadan, but we saw some elaborate gold jewellery. We then went to another friend of Lars for Pizza and beer. Dirk's dog is extremely friendly, always licking and sniffing us. :P I loved the Dubai stories Dirk told us - even the young kids would demand luxury cars like Porsche, Rolls Royce or Lamborghini. Anything short of these, such as Toyota is not considered a car! Showing off and status symbols are the norm in the Middle East! :)

Overall, Dubai is hands down a super modern and luxurious city. We didn't know it's also a super safe place and the majority of the 2 million residents are expats. The whole city is just so unreal to me. My first experience with the Middle East has been set to a unrealistic high standard. I only wish to stay at Burj Al Arab next time when I return. :P


Day 222 to 237: Sri Lanka - Well rounded for nature, wildlife, history and culture!

27 June to 12 July

I am glad that Lars single-handedly planned the Sri Lanka trip. I just sat back and enjoyed the show. As a result, the two weeks we had in Sri Lanka was more relaxing and slow-paced, compared to my typical Chinese, cram-everything-in style! We had a bit of everything in Sri Lanka - wildlife, beach time, landscape, temples, gardens and shopping. I told Lars this should be the way going forward!

Lars went for the driver option under his friend's recommendation. It is not the cheapest way to travel in Sri Lanka but we saved a lot of time and hassle. Its interesting to see the drivers have their own network and help each other out. Our driver Ishan is also a licensed tour guide and speaks 5 languages. He happens to be Muslim so was fasting during the trip - I really cannot imagine not drinking water for the whole day.  He is a nice guy, but he chewed our ears off by the end of the trip!

We got lucky with the weather and barely got any rain despite it being the rain season. Our itinerary for the 2 weeks:
   
Day 1 to 3:  Sigiriya
After a horrible delay in Shanghai airport, where we sat inside the plane for 5 hours, we finally arrived in Colombo airport red-eye around lunch time. Our driver took us to Sigiriya directly from the airport. We caught up on some sleep in the car (well, at least I did). On the way, we had a round of King coconuts, a welcome drink from our driver.

We stayed at an eco-lodge place called Back of Beyond under Lars' friend's recommendation. It was a very interesting stay in the middle of the jungle. We had all kinds of insects and animals inside and outside of the room. We liked the fire flies as they lit up in the evening outside the room, and even inside the room. There were also frogs is the open air bathroom and they seem to be permanent residents there. We also heard the monkeys and once an elephant outside. The mosquito net proved to be very useful. Ironically, our driver did not enjoy the wildlife as much as we did! The food was decent and after 3 days, it occurred to me that the classic Sri Lanka dish is anything "devilled" - e.g. devilled chicken, devilled fish or even devilled potatoes. The place was a little strange with only 2.5 staff (the manager being part time), but was a novelty for us.

We loved the Elephant Safari (Minneriya National Park) even though there were only about 50 of them this time of the year. We got some romantic elephant moves on video!

We also climbed the Sigiriya Rock Fortress (Citadel of Sigiriya). Good view on top. It's inconceivable that people build a palace on top of a gigantic rock so many years ago. The museum is a worthy visiting, because the documentary video and pictures show a better aerial view of the fortress.  

Day 4 to 8: Polonnaruwa and Pasikuda Beach
We visited Polonnaruwa (ancient ruins) on the way to the East coast. Some structures are a bit similar to the Angkor complex in Cambodia, but others are quite different and impressive - I like the main Tooth temple, and stupas. 

Some rest and relaxation was long overdue. Lars booked us a 5-night stay at Amaya Beach, a four star hotel at Pasikuda Beach. The East coast was safe from rain in July. The hotel did not disappoint - spacious and modern room with sea view. And great buffet! We did nothing but sleeping, eating, and a bit of pool time in between for 5 days. A real holiday.     

Day 9 & 10: Dambulla and Kandy
After recharging our batteries, we left for Kandy and visited the Dambulla Cave Temple on the way. It was interesting to see how people painted the ceilings of the caves at that time. We then stopped at a spice garde for lunch and it was tasty, all for less than 5 pounds per person! The tour about the spices or medicine was okay interesting and we bought some curry power from the shop.

Initially we were a bit worried about the weather at Kandy as it had been raining for days. Luckily the weather had just turned for the better when we arrived. We stayed at an odd hotel, but it had over 150 TV channels!

We visited the Temple of Tooth. The structure of the temple is nice but nothing extraordinary, but the hype over the Buddha Tooth Relic is incredible. We waited to view the opening of the golden cascade where the Tooth lies and were amazed by how crowded it got. We finally got a glimpse of the cascade, which is shiny and filled with treasures, but the tooth was not visible. Interesting experience. 

The Royal Botanic Garden is definitely a highlight for us. There must be a few thousands fruit bats in the garden and some of them are huge. We had never seen bats outside caves at this point. We have also seen the oldest and oddest trees here. Too bad I couldn't steal the largest coconuts I have ever seen. Now, this is a proper botanic garden!  

Our driver recommended a Culture Dance show in Kandy, which I found a complete waste of time. We also visited the jewellery museum nearby and it was semi interesting. Our driver took us to another place for some jewellery shopping. We only bought gifts for our mothers. Since I don't know anything about Blue Sapphires, I decided to stay away from investing in one. 

Day 11 & 12: Nuwara Eliya (known as Little England)
Even though we have a car, we decided to do the scenic train ride from Kandy to Nanu Oya (near Nuwara Eliya) and we are so glad we did it. The view from the train is stunning! We have no idea how we got the best seats in the observation carriage. I got my terrace fix - this time is about tea plants. The mountain range of tea plants is absolutely beautiful. But be warned, the train shakes like hell. We had to take motion sickness pills. :P

Our hotel was essentially a big and old English house! It reminded us so much of London. The night was cold and we had to use the heater! Considering we were sweating madly a few hours ago, Sri Lanka is full of surprises.

We decided against going to the World's Ends (a long hike you can do nearby Nuwara Eliya), because of the weather and none of us wanted to get up at 4.30am in this cold weather! Instead, we visited MacWoods, the largest tea company. It was OK, but the staff was a bit rude and unhelpful. We drove around to appreciate the landscapes and scenery in this area. We also went to a local dairy farm (Ameleva) and bought some fresh yoghurt.  

Our driver took us to see a few fancy hotels in the area. St Andrew's has a beautiful garden, but our lunch service was really slow. The Grand Hotel also has a nice garden and a grand lobby. The best bit is that the Indian restaurant in the hotel is excellent. Food was tasty and very cheap.

Day 13: Yala
Before we reached Yala, our driver had a surprise stop for us at Gal Vihara. It was interesting to see the giant stone stature carved out of the rock.

In the late afternoon, we went to the Yala National Park. We did not expect the roads to be so bumpy! We were getting car sick. We saw many other animals (green bee-eaters, peacocks, monkeys, elephants, water buffaloes, crocodiles, mongoose, jackal and lots of different birds), but we did not spot any of the leopards the park is famours for. Guess we have to go to Africa to see more big animals. 

We stayed at the sister eco-lodge of Back of Beyond in Sigiriya. Lars and the driver loved it. I absolutely hated it as the leaves they used for the hut's roof were constantly making noise with the wind and I couldn't sleep! But the food was much better, especially the breakfast. We had a stroll along a beautiful nearby beach, which was surprisingly purplish. Unfortunately, we couldn't stay long as our driver was already waiting or us to leave.

Day 14: Galle
I was so happy to leave Yala and we took the express way to Galle. It was raining a bit on the express way, but there were barely any other cars.  We found a nice B&B inside the fort on TripAdvisor. The owner Ravi is really helpful and made us a delicious breakfast.

Galle is very different from the other towns. It felt European, but with a Sri Lanka twist. We walked around the Fort, which is beautiful and watched the sunset by the ancient wall. We ran into lots of young school kids and they asked for my name.

We also walked around the streets filled with shops and restaurants. We had good ice cream (sorbet for me) on the street. For dinner we went with the set menu from a small local restaurant. It comes with 10 different home made curries - I liked the jack-fruit one the most.

Day 15 & 16: Colombo
Our driver drove us around Colombo and gave us a city tour. We liked the look of Jami-Ul-Alfar Mosque and the Gangaramaya Buddhist Temple. The city is definitely more modern than any other towns in Sri Lanka, but it cannot really compare with any of the big Western cities. 

Lars finally met up with his good friend Sanjiva, who took us to Café Galleria for a great lunch. My fish and chips was more flavourful than in the UK, but Lars' pork curry was better. After lunch, we had the honour to tour Sanjiva's state-of-the-art office of his company WSO2. It even has a basketball court on the rooftop with a very nice view.

We stayed with Glen and Fiona at 27 Spathodea, #1 ranked B&B on TripAdvisor. They are super nice and helpful. Their house is beautiful and filled with antiques. We even played with their little star tortoise in the garden. They also offered us dinner and that's when we tasted cashew nut curry for the first time! Very yummy. Fiona took me shopping for clothing and I returned with Lars on the second day - that's how good it was. Real branded T-shirts for a fraction of the price. It was hard to leave them behind. If we return, we will definitely stay with them again.     

In general, we feel Sri Lanka is not as cheap as the other SEA or Asia countries. Hotels are expensive - you will not a decent one for much less than US$100 per night. If you book online, be mindful of the additional 25% taxes. The attractions are also costly. Many places (including safaris) charge $30 per person for foreigners whereas the locals pay 250 rupees ($2). Hiring a driver is definitely easier, but not the cheapest option to travel. But food is fairly cheap. A typical lunch buffet costs the locals less than 350 rupees ($3). Sometimes the locals will try to charge more for tourists.

Although Sri Lanka is reasonably expensive, it is good place to get a bit of everything in a short period of time. The road condition is much better than in India. Lars said the food is similar to South-Indian food, so he loved it. Other than Colombo, we did not see any high rises or modern buildings. The country side is beautiful. Given the history, Sri Lanka is a relatively new country and no doubt the tourism will continue to develop in the future. Its a good place to go on a 2-week holiday.

Day 198 to 221: China - Food overload and rude people shock!

3 to 26 June

I didn't think Chinese people, my people, are rude. I mean I have seen the typical Chinese tourist behaviours before but I always thought that was the minority. My Chinese friends who live abroad are fairly polite and civil. Whenever I went back for work or visiting family, I did not have any issues. It's not until this trip, I realised that many, if not the majority, of the people from my country, are rude, dishonest and gave no regards to others in order to advance their own interests. The service level or attitude in general, is not up to the standards of other SEA countries.

Day 1 to 8: Dalian for family time
It was so great to see my mom and other relatives at the airport. I haven't seen some of them for more than 10 years. They all commented that Lars is so tall!

As soon as we checked in the Air China hotel arranged by my uncle, eating and banqueting began and continued until we left. Of course I was in heaven whereas Lars complained about too much food. My uncle arranged a series of family activities - sight seeing, cherry picking, going to the hot spring, visiting the ports etc. As Lars put it, every activity seem to end with a banquet.  

Lars doesn't understand why I think my home town is small. It is a second tier city by Chinese standards. But with 6 million people, it's double the size of Berlin! When I asked Lars what he thinks about my city, he said its big! But the people, other than my family, are rude. Some examples:

  • When we asked for black coffee at breakfast, the waitress at Air China Hotel simply pointed to a pot of pre-mixed milk and sugar coffee and said that's it and there is nothing she can do. Then, she turned around and continued chit-chatting with her colleague. Second day, we ask them to replenish watermelons half hour before the breakfast finishes, she did not even check and said there was no more while we could even see more watermelons through the kitchen door. Again, she then ignored me and continued gossiping with her colleagues. 
  • We found a coffee bar at the lobby. The waitress there lied about having no change for the coffee we wanted. Conveniently, the only available type costs 9 pounds per cup. But when we said we will go somewhere else, she magically produced change...
  • There was no queuing at the front desk, or anywhere in general. People are shouting and smoking in the lobby as if it was normal.
  • We took one stop on a public bus to avoid walking. What could go wrong on a two minute ride? A half sweaty guy not wearing any shirt all of a sudden grabbed Lars arm and started shouting in Chinese. Lars was not very amused...
We also had hard time to buy a pre-paid SIM card. It was already bad enough that the Chinese government blocks Google, Facebook and other useful apps, it is even worse they require a local ID card to get a SIM card. In the shop they lied to us about the pre-paid card we wanted to buy no longer being available although we could still order ot online. My uncle ended up opening an account for us via a small street shop and the data rates were bloody expensive. The trouble did not stop here. It was a nightmare to try to book flights and trains online. International credit cards are not accepted by local airlines or trains. At the end, using a  travel agent proved to be more useful.

After a week with the family. We are ready for some sightseeing. Everything is about size in China. Its a big country with a big population and all the tourist attractions are big stuff! I decided to follow the typical travel route for our itinerary in China. I volunteered to be the travel guide for Lars and my mother. I up'd my game by doing research on various Chinese websites and brushing up on histories - my Chinese was improving by the day!  

Day 9 to 12: Beijing for the Great Wall
After 2 hours of delay with Air China, we finally arrived in Beijing. We were extremely lucky with the weather. Not only there was no smog, it was sunny with blue sky for all the days we were there. Apparently, it only happens a few days a year. We visited the must-see attractions:
  • Tiananmen Square looked much smaller than 10 years ago ... and everyone has to go through security now. The guards shouted at us and pushed us through the scanner just as he did with everyone else ... not a good first impression
  • The Forbidden City looks as magnificent as before. We were given no maps at the ticket office so three of us walked everywhere for the whole day. Lars admired the sheer size of the palace, but noticed that the buildings look identical in terms of architectural design. Highlight for my mother was the clock and treasure museums, whereas I was completely stunned by the 5-ton jade sculpture. None of these was open for exhibition 10 years ago when I visited. 
  • The Summer Palace offers some good views. The ticket office was not helpful as usual so we ended up climbing to the peak twice. But at least we got decent views. We had to ask for directions many times as even the staff often gave the wrong info. No one bothers to put up proper signs ... that’s probably why I missed the views at the top 10 years ago. :P
  • Mutianyu Great Wall is one of our highlights in China. I didn’t know about it until the night before. I climbed the more popular Badaling Great Wall section last time, but did not get a great view. We tried to use Uber taxi but the drivers kept accepting the job and then cancelling it last minute. One person even tried to charge us without showing up! So we gave up at the end.  
    • It was very difficult to figure out how to get there by public transit, even for me, who speaks Chinese. Everyone tells you a different story. But we got there eventually, after one subway, one bus and a taxi ride. As usual, the office did not explain the different lift options and gave no maps. By the time we reached the Wall, it was lunch time and there was barely anyone. The view is breathtaking. We walked 4 hours on top of the Great Wall and completely killed our legs. 
    • On the way back, we met a psychology professor from Hong Kong and we took an illegal taxi together as there was no other options. He shared stories about how unsafe some of the mainland Chinese tourist attractions are. We also spoke about the current issues in HK and I am worried about the future of HK.
  • The Temple of Haven is very nice and this was my first visit. The main temple is beautiful, but the echo wall no longer seems to work.   
  • JingShan Park is a small park behind the Forbidden City. Lars discovered it and we went there to watch the sunset on our last day. It was an easy climb, but was packed with people. The best spot for sunset had no less than 200 people, mostly equipped with high end DSLR cameras.   
We also had great food in Beijing. My friend Eric now owns two restaurants so us free loaders had lots of high quality Korean BBQ and Japanese hotpot. Lars even got his dessert fix. We were also invited by my mother's friend to have Peking Duck at XuanJiuDe. Peking Duck in London cannot compare. Lars was grossed out by the duck tongue though - he said he almost throw up when he saw the dish. We tried the other snack streets in Wangfujing, but both are very touristy and poor quality. 

Our good time in Beijing came to an end when we checked out from our hotel.  We had a big fight at the end because the hotel staff was unhelpful, unprofessional, rude and lying to us. We wanted to call the police, but we had to catch a train

Day 13 to 15: Xi'an for Terra Cotta Warriors
We took the high speed train from Beijing to Xi'an. Although it was not as fast as the bullet train in Japan, it was not too bad. Once we got off, we got a local taxi and the driver already tried to lie about not able to park near our hotel. He dropped us off around the corner, but other taxis we took the other day had no problem going directly to the hotel.

Our hotel rooms were quite spacious and cheap. I did not know that there are quite a few attractions in Xi'an until I spoke to my friend Eric. So, we decided to stay 3 days. We visited the usual sights:
  • Hua Qing Hot Spring, more interesting for Chinese people due to its history. The hot spring tubs used by the Tang Dynasty Emperor and his favourite concubine are interesting. 
  • Terra Cotta Warriors are impressive, because of the scale and history. There are so many fake public buses going to the sites! We also went to the Tomb but there was nothing to see. 
  • Lars cycled around the Old City Wall for 2 hours whereas my mother and I took the shuttle car and walked. I really should practice biking more. 
  • The Bell Tower and Drum Tower are quite nice as well. We ended up at the Muslim Quarter and had dinner there. The streets are too busy for my liking, but some of the food & snacks are quite good.
  • We visited the Dayan Pagoda at night to catch the water fountain show. The show was very disappointing, but we witnessed two women arguing with the security guards / police. The policemen almost resorted to violence, but deterred, because the women said she's pregnant... smart women!  
    • On the way back, we first got a taxi by luck. But as soon as we told the driver where we wanted to go, he said it is the wrong direction and he had to drive a detour. So we got off and only found out that he was lying. It took us 45 mins before we found another taxi as we hit the rush hour. Basically, he wanted to wait for another 15 mins and then he can charge the night rate!  
  • We popped by the ShanXi History Museum on the last day. I couldn't believe it is free for everyone. The museum is smaller than expected. We were leaving as the museum was closing. I asked the staff working at the museum shop where the nearest toilet is. She said I have to go outside. I almost believed her until I saw the toilet sign pointing to the basement. It was right next to her shop!
We had some good food in Xi'an - a small shop near our hotel sells good Rou Jia Mo (like a meat sandwich) and we also discovered a place making North-eastern food (food from our home town). But we also had bad and expensive food at a Chinese Thai Restaurant.

Day 16 to 21: Chengdu for pandas  
We flew to Chengdu in Sichuan Province. Although food and accommodation in China is generally cheap (other than Beijing and Shanghai), flights and trains are relatively expensive, unless booked in advance.  We took the late flight and our taxi driver could not find the hotel initially. But he was very nice and called the hotel for us. A new breeze for us. 

Our hotel rooms are a bit strange. They are spacious and come with a private sauna room. Given the hotel is only 2 years old, things are deteriorating fast! A lot of things are not working properly. Even after we reported to the reception, nothing got fixed.    

We didn't go to the famous national park nor climb the famous mountains nearby, because of the high altitude. Also, both my mother and Lars are not keen on walking long distance. I was overruled by the United Nations of Lars and Chen. Instead, we focused our efforts mainly on eating and low energy activities:
  • Jin Li Street, a shopping and snack street. We had so many different snacks, which all tasted great. It's much better than the other snack streets in Beijing and Xi'an. There are also nice shops and a nice park nearby.
  • Panda Research Centre is a must. We took the taxi (no issues this time) and spent the whole day as the map was rubbish. The best part is quite hidden inside, but at least there are basic signage. The Pandas are sooooo cute especially the baby ones. We had a great time in the park. 
    • I also received feedback from the United Nation of Lars and Chen. They said I was too impatient and bossy as a tour guide. I told them this is what you get for a free guide in China! 
  • We checked out the Wide-Narrow Alley. Its another shopping area but the snacks are rather limited. Its more about arts, shops and tea houses. 
  • Wenshu Monastery turns out to be much nicer than I expected. We saw some interesting turtles in the park. The best part is that we stumbled upon a famous local restaurant - we had an excellent lunch (dumplings, buns, pumpkin balls etc.) for all three of us for only £5! 
  • We went to Dujiang Damn for a day tour. Its more famous for Chinese people and it is only interesting, because of its history. Our tour guide, in her early 20s, was super helpful and nice.   
For the rest of our time, we were looking for good, non-spicy food since none of us can handle chilly. We tried the famous pork knuckle at Liao Mother's. We also found a good Sichuan restaurant in the Wide-Narrow Alley. When we were not eating, mom and I did shopping. Lars and I both got an excellent haircut for 4 pounds! It included washing, massaging, cutting, another washing and blow drying. We were both very satisfied with the results.

Overall, this city is nicer than the other ones. People are much more friendly and helpful, maybe because there are more Taoists and Buddhists? I wouldn't mind coming back to visit!  

Day 22 to 24: Shanghai for shopping and night view
We had a nightmare with our travel agent Travel Nation, which has always been great in the past. We were unlucky and got assigned a stupid guy called Martin to deal with our date change request to leave China. Long story short, we had to book a last minute flight to Shanghai which cost us 100 pounds per person.

We used Uber for our airport transportation and it worked out much cheaper than the regular taxi. We were initially assigned a horrible room and finally got a better room on the second day, after a little bit of complaining and discussions... the contrast is huge between the rooms in the 4-star hotel.

We did not do much sightseeing in Shanghai. We walked to the Bund at night for the night view, but it was not the best weather. Mom and I went for clothes shopping but the prices have gone up so much in the recent years. Anything of good quality is not much cheaper than in Europe. We also went to the computer outlet to shop for IT stuff, but we were unsure about the authenticity and quality. We read so many bad reviews online about how the vendors cheated customers, and the prices are basically the same as ordering from Amazon UK. At the end, we did not have much luck with shopping. 
We had some good food in Shanghai. The difference between fancy restaurants and local joints is significant. The oddest thing though is that you had to pay for tissues or paper napkins in most places! Lars and mom liked the New World Area and how ironic that we had German beer in Shanghai! 
The level of unhelpfulness is another new level in Shanghai. People here will simply ignore you when you ask for help or directions. I suppose it is better than giving wrong info. I finally lost it the last day in Shanghai. After the sales woman ignored me when I asked for directions to the toilet, I shouted at her and left! We also encountered an Uber taxi driver who lied about not having enough space so that he could cancel our job as Uber's surge pricing just kicked in after he accepted our order.  
Overall, after 3 weeks, even I was happy to leave China. We liked what we saw, what we ate (okay, just me) and spending time with family in China, but we were disappointed with the people. Many are rude, always shouting, lying just to get rid of you, unhelpful and selfish. In the other countries we travelled to, there was always a small percentage of people like that, but in China, it seems to be the majority. The service standards are also not up to par, especially for government services and government owned entities. The infrastructure for independent travelling was not sufficient.

In three weeks, we became more angry, impolite and impatient. We wanted to shout back many times but eventually just learned to lower our expectations for everything. Even though there are so many beautiful places to visit, I am not sure I have the patience to do it again. I really hope all this will change soon and China becomes a more civil and welcoming country. I want to be a proud Chinese!

Wednesday, 12 August 2015

Day 187 to 197: Japan - What a culture shock!

23 May to 2 June

Our trip to Japan is utterly unforgettable, not because of the blinking neon signs, high rises, or endless temples and Japanese gardens, but because of its distinct culture! My biased and stereotypical conclusion, based on a short 11-day trip, is that the Japanese have organisation OCD, are germophobics and obsessed with bowing, apologizing and using vending machines for everything!

For travel planning, we largely followed the itinerary suggested by Japan-guide.com and bought the Japanese Rail Pass before arriving in Tokyo.   

Tokyo - first day, an eventful day and start of a series of culture shock! 
We spent a total of 4 full days in Tokyo and stayed in an Airbnb studio apartment in Shinjuku, because any alternative hotel accommodation would have been seriously expensive.

Day 1: we arrived early morning via a red-eye flight from Hanoi. Right off the plane, we already noticed that people are walking so fast. I was quite impressed by the push carts designed to work on both escalators and elevators. 

Having arrived too early to check in, we found a Gyoza place near our rental flat to have some brunch. Shortly after, groups of construction workers swooped in for lunch. Good timing. It seems that uniform and loud greetings from all staff, when you enter and leave the restaurant, is the Japanese way! I also read that leaving tips would be an insult to the Japanese.

We were happy with our cosy, but functional flat - the bathtub and the washing basin shared the same tab. It makes sense as it saves space. Admittedly, I was more intrigued by the supply of Japanese black q-tips Lars found in the flat. We both slept until late afternoon and then decided it's about time to get out for some Tokyo culture.

We popped by the nearby observation deck in the Metropolitan Government Building. The view was alright, considering it is free to get up there. We then headed towards Shinjuku area to find out what the fuzz is all about. On the way, we got distracted by several arcades. The sheer scale of the video games and types of vending machines is incredible. I couldn't resist but wasting monies on the stuffed animal machines. As you would expect, I didn't get anything at the end. :(

Once we reached the fringe of Kabukicho, Tokyo's Red Light District, we were greeted by several bouncer-looking black guys. They are super friendly and asked if we want to have some fun ... we continued walking around and didn't spot anything extraordinary, nor any pretty girls. Although there were a lot of blinking neon signs, we expected more. On the other hand, we spotted many karaoke bars instead of night clubs.

Feeling hungry, we went to Omoide Yokocho area which is characterised by small local eateries. We hit the jackpot by stumbling upon a famous Soba noodle bar. We only decided to sat down at this local joint, because there were seats available. Only a few minutes later, a queue was developing and a local claimed that he has been coming here for 20 years as the soba here is his soul food. We loved what was presented to us after we simply pointed to what others were having - the broth, buck wheat noodles, slightly cooked egg and the veggie tempura. It was nothing fancy, but simply hearty. There was only one problem for Lars -  it was very noisy ... because the locals were all slurping full speed:P Still, this did not deter us from coming back again.   

Completely satisfied with what is now in our stomach, we then headed to Golden Gai area for drinks. This lively night-life district is filled with small local bars and pubs, some of which charge a hefty cover charge. We eventually settled in a more "multi-culture" one, where we won't stick out like a thorn thumb. The Aussies and Americans seem to already claimed most of the territory in the bar. It turns out the bar tender-owner had gone to the US to study and returned a few years ago to be a musician. In fact, an old Japanese man was the minority in the bar. He had been chatting with a American girl and he rushed off to catch his train, after being stopped to take a photo with the American tourists.

We got acquainted with two other couples - a Canadian couple with Italian roots and an Italian couple living in Hong Kong. After sharing many travelling stories, to our surprise, the old Japanese man had returned! He explained that he missed the train, because of the photo session ... he never likes photos, he says. We then started chatting. It turns out that he is a retired English teacher and had been coming to the bar for years. It is absolutely normal for him to come out on a Saturday night and his wife and children do not mind at all. We talked a lot about Japan, the economy, his students, politics and the sensitive topics about China and Japan. In fact, the grandfathers of both the teacher and the bar owner all served in the military during WII in my home town Dalian, China and spoke fondly about my city.

The Americans eventually left and as they were leaving, one guy put in 8,000 yen (40 GBP) into the tip box. The bar-owner was so shocked that he thinks the guy made a mistake. After some more chatting and drinking, we left at some ungodly hour. On our way home, we were stopped by the police! Its only the first day in Japan! It turns out that we had just crossed the street when the light was still red, even though there was absolutely no one, or car for that matter, at 3.30am in the morning ... He said, "YOU DO NOT DO THIS, THIS IS JAPAN!"

Day 2: We continued with sightseeing and checked out the famous Shibuya Crossing. It is quite a scene to see people walking from all directions. We also passed through Yoyogi park and the Olympic Stadium and saw a huge queue of young girls, apparently waiting to buy tickets for a boy band performance. After, we visited the Meiji temple, which I found quite grand. This is the first time we saw the Japanese torii gate and also commercialised fortune telling - I fell for it and bought a "lucky poem"!    

Finally, we took the metro to go to Pier's, who is a good friend of Lars' and had been living in Tokyo for years. One word on Tokyo subway lines - you think London is confusing? Wait until you see Tokyo's. We ended the evening with yummy BBQ steaks and catching up between old friends. We are super lucky that Pier's new BBQ had just arrived the day before!      

Day 3: We had to go to the Chinese embassy to sort out our Visas for China. When we arrived, the visa office was like a market - super busy and chaotic! Although we managed to get all documents ready eventually, we found out that we couldn't expedite Lars' visa so we had to ask Pier for help and pick it up for us a few days later. Pier, we are so lucky to know you!!
We spent the whole morning at the embassy and decided to try another type of soba noodles in the nearby Roppongi Centre. I even helped with the translation for the French intern sitting at the next table. After lunch, we were sitting on the bench outside of the square and that's when we felt a good shake. I told Lars not to shake the bench, but only to find out later that it was an earthquake (it was the 4.8 magnitude earthquake near Sakai)!

We visited the Imperial Palace after and wanted to go to the Imperial Garden, but it was closed on Mondays. Bad planning. So we ended up walking through the financial district (boring!) and checked out the Marunouchi District and a bit of Ginza (up-scale shopping area). On the way home, we went to the Southern Terrace, which was quite difficult to find. Shinjuku station is like a maze. Under Pier's recommendation, we went for sushi at a small place near the underground station. It was good value. 

Day 4: We spent our last day visiting Asakusa and Odaiba districts. We hit the Asakusa temple first thing. The shopping street leading to the temple is quite quirky and interesting - it was filled with young school girls. We tried some of the local snacks and it's a bit hit and miss, in terms of taste. The temple itself is also quite big and interesting.

After visiting the temple, we went to Sumida River Park and took a sightseeing ferry to Hama Rikyu Garden. It was quite interesting to see how the boat could park inside of the gate to the garden. After spend some time in the nice garden, we took the elevated train to Odaiba. Let me tell you, the train ride was amazing. The view was spectacular and it's a highlight for us.  

Once we arrived at the modern part of Tokyo, we found a good spot to watch the sunset, while having some Ramen, which tasted average. The night view of Tokyo is quite impressive. We walked around a bit more after and headed home. After we got out of the station, I persuaded Lars to go back to the Soba place we discovered on the first night in Omoide Yokocho. Speaking of power of persuasion!

In summery, Tokyo was really interesting for us and 4 days were not enough to really know the city. The people are much more relaxed than what I expected. Other than accommodations, Tokyo does not seem to be as expensive as we expected. Everything goes in terms of fashion - from conservative suits and shirts to animated costumes. Lastly, everything can be bought from the vending machine. Any type of drinks and snacks is a given, but many restaurants only accept orders after you've purchased a ticket from their vending machine! 

Atami - a real Japanese experience, but Japanese breakfast is YUCK! 
Because of Pier's excellent advise, Lars booked us an overnight stay at a Ryokan (a traditional Japanese inn that originated in the Edo period) in the hot spring town Atami. Everything about the stay was weird and interesting at the same time.

First, dressing up in the Yukatas required some practice. We then squeezed into our tiny private outdoor hot spring. Its not until much later we realised that the hot spring was just for one person ...Oops... After we had our 15-course Kaiseki dinner (mostly seafood), we decided to check out the public Onsen.

After getting in, I quickly washed myself while sitting on a small stool, which I thought was made for children... I then followed the others and put the little towel on top of my head while in the pool. I couldn't stay too long because it was so hot! And then I realised that the other women were spending most of their time cleaning themselves, rather than soaking in the hot spring! Feeling being roasted, I had to leave after 15 minutes. But when I saw the Shiseido products provided at the change room, I spent a lot longer sampling different creams from my favourite cosmetics brand. LOL    

Sleeping on the Tatami also required some skills. Poor Lars reported severe back pain in the morning. Then, there is the legendary Japanese breakfast ... it still gives me chills when I think about it. Some dishes tasted foul... Oh, I made sure to try out all the buttons on the Japanese toilet (that one was fairly modern and not from the Edo period). Overall, this was such an interesting and novelty experience that we will never forget it!

Kyoto - completely temple'd and garden'd out!
We took the high speed bullet train or Shinkansen to Kyoto. It was so fast that I felt dizzy when I looked out the window. Everything is so clean and quiet. People don't talk in the carriage - if they have to make a phone call, they step to the corridor. The attendant bows to the passengers whenever they enter and leave the carriage. The toilet on the train is, as expected, super clean. However, the weirdest thing we witnessed has to be the hand gestures the train staff gave after a train passes by ... we are not talking about salute towards to the leaving train, we are talking about talking and waving to a train that's no longer in sight ... google it, you will see this is how the Japanese avoid accidents.

We spent the following 4 days in Kyoto and visited the standard sights. We stayed at another Airbnb apartment in the shopping district.

Day 1: We had to see the Fushimi Inari-Taisha, or the famous torii gate shrine, for ourselves. It was quite impressive to have all the gates lining up next to each other. Afterwards, we headed towards Gion district and walked around in pursuit of geishas. But at the end, we only spotted two different geisha in a car - they seemed to be going to places with their clients. The area was surprisingly quiet. We ended the evening with a meal at a nice Japanese restaurant in Pontocho, overlooking the river.

Day 2: The Nishiki Market nearby was not as good as expected. The variety of snacks is rather limited, or maybe because we are not a big fan of pickled and fishy things. We had our share of mochi balls though. In fact, I was suffering from these sticky rice (in various forms, but all in Green Tea flavours) for days.

After "brunch", we went to Kinkakuji, the Golden Pavilion. The actual temple is quite nice but it was packed with tourists and local students.

After spending an hour there, we walked to Rzoaniji (the Rock Temple) for its famous zen Garden. When I first saw the Zen garden, I was extremely disappointed - it was tiny. It's nothing more than a few rocks randomly arranged on gravels ... I eventually sat down and start to stare at the rocks in disbelief ... that's when I start to get it ... I did feel a sense of peace and quietness once I calmed down and focus only on the garden. Okay, not all that bad.

By the time we walked to the Ninnaji Temple, it was closed. We took the bus home, but still had to walk quite a bit after. The public transit in Kyoto was not great. I should have practised biking more in London!    

Day 3: We explored East Kyoto by starting at Ginkakuji (the Silver Pavilion). The history of this zen temple is interesting. The dry sand garden would have fetched much more excitement from us, had we not seen the zen garden at the Rock Temple. We then walked along Philosopher's Path... too bad it was not the cherry blossom time. We spotted some gigantic fish in the river stream though.

We continued to Nanzenji Temple and spent some time at the Sammon Gate and Hojo Rock Garden. Seriously, I was so tired of rock gardens by then that I could throw up! We then followed a secret path near the brick aqueduct at the back of the temple and came across an interesting water damn. Gladly, we somehow ended up on the main street after more walking.

We rushed to Kiyomiyudera Temple, only to find out that it closes much later than the other temples (typically at 5pm). If I had to pick one temple in Kyoto to visit, it would be Kiyomiyudera. It's not because it is more beautiful, bigger or fancier than others, but because it is the best representation how superstitious the Japanese are and how commercialised and systematic the temples can be to make money! Fortune telling boxes are everywhere and you can purchase different lucky charms to improve your luck. There were 10 or 20 shrines for different type of fortune - family, study, career, etc. Donation boxes are, of course, wild spread. It was very interesting to see!

We headed back to Higashiyama shopping streets afterwards and they are indeed very cute and traditional. We spotted 3 real Maiko (Geisha apprentices) here! Unfortunately, I realised it too late that they are real (judging from the paint on the neck). We didn't get a good picture of them. But we got close to 2 other fake ones who volunteered to take pictures with us. :P 

Finally, we went to Yasaka Shrine for some pictures. We also wanted to visit Kodaiji gardens, but it was closed. We ended up passing by the Gion Corner and went inside to check out some of the videos and pictures on the wall. 


Day 4: We spent the last day in Arashiyama District. We started at the Monkey Park and played with the red faced monkeys, which was good fun. The park also has a good view of Kyoto.

We then headed down and crossed the Togetsukyo Bridge. A nice view of the lake. Can't believe we stopped at another temple, Tenryuji. I do not even remember what's special about this temple. They started to look all the same to me. 

Last stop was Bamboo Grove, which is quite scenic. I also dragged Lars to the Saga-Toriimoto Preserved Street. What a mistake. It was a long walk to get there and back. The streets don't look particular appealing and are not much different from Higashiyama streets. We were completely exhausted after that. We went back to Kyoto station and did some window shopping.   


Overall, we had our fair share of Temples, torri gates and Japanese gardens after 4 days in Kyoto! The city was slightly underwhelming because we had seen so much temples in other parts of South-East Asia already. We also expected bigger and fancier gardens, albeit the Japanese gardens are very well manicured. But it's definitely a good representation of Japanese history, culture and architecture. 

Miyajima - stunning view and paper-eating deer!
We left Kyoto in the morning and made our way to Miyajima by lunch time. We first tried the famous Unadon (eel with rice in a bowl) at a local restaurant near the port and then spent half day on the beautiful island.

First shock happened when we saw so many deer roaming around the islands, and they eat paper! We spotted some chewing on cupboards and one was trying to eat my map. They can be aggressive once they think you have food. I've caught one bad deer on camera!

We then spent lots of time taking photos and playing around near the famous torii gate. As it was low tide, we walked up to the gate and saw many locals picking sea snails from the mud.

Bad planing on our part, by the time we reached the top, we only had 1 hour to go to the observatory and come back. We must have created a record by running up and down and at the end, had 5 mins to spare before the very last lift leaves. But the view was stunning on top. Definitely worth it. We then watched the sunset by the torii gate, very romantic until a boat with a couple blocked everyone's view ... we all shouted at them. 

I had to try the oysters here because the island is famous for oyster farms! I had steamed-grilled ones and they are definitely bigger than the ones in Hastings. We also tried Okonomiyaki, which are gigantic noodle pancakes. I am not a big fan, because I think its farmer food. But Lars really enjoyed it. :P  

For the night, we stayed with a local family, Yuca and her family. She is super nice, always worried about not taking good care of us and constantly apologizing. Her husband is Russian by birth, but lived in Japan for a long time. Her son is so cute and naughty, and tried to scare me with bugs. I will always remember her tasty breakfast - rice balls and Japanese chicken curry.

The second morning, we headed back to Tokyo and visited Himeji Castle on the way. The castle looks beautiful from the outside, but not much much to see from the inside. It was really convenient that lockers are everywhere in the train station. Once we reached Tokyo, we met up with our beloved Pier for some Japanese tapas, and to pick up our passports. Pier, if you need visa runs in London, you know who to contact. 

We got to our hotel near the airport around 11pm. We didn't expect much as it was just a cheap business hotel, but were pleasantly surprised. The hotel was very nice and equipped with well designed appliances. We almost wished we could have stayed longer.

Overall, Japan was a real culture treat for us. From products to appliances, from cuisine to people's manners, surprises are waiting at every corner. It is the most developed country in the East for a reason. Unlike most other SEA countries that we travelled to, public places especially toilets are clean and orderly.  People are super polite. No one litters or speaks loud in public. Three things I associate the most with Japan: green tea, hello kitty and bowing. It is such an interesting country to visit! I am just not sure how its relationship with China and Korea unfolds in the future, and if its economic growth is really as worrying as the West makes it out to be. Better visit now in any case!

Saturday, 4 July 2015

Last day at Passikudah beach on Sri Lanka's east coast. Time to explore some more of Sri Lanka...

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Day 169 to 186 Vietnam - Stunning countryside, best explored by motorbikes

5 to 22 May

We didn't quite expect the countryside of Vietnam to be so beautiful. On the other hand, we also didn't expect to fear for our lives when crossing roads in Vietnam. :P The big cities are filled with motorbikes and scooters, which seem to be prepared to run us over any second. We did master the skills of crossing roads eventually. As soon as we left the big cities for countryside, we were rewarded with fresh air, peace, quietness and - the best part - a range of beautiful landscapes.

Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon) - first exposure to motorbikes, I feel like a deer in headlight! 
After paying a premium to sort out our visas online (we ran into yet another major holiday in Vietnam). The government seems to close the immigration department and embassy for a few days to discourage Western visitors during the celebration of 40 years of ending the Vietnam War to come to Vietnam.

We only stayed 2 days in HCMC and I was happy to leave after that - the amount of scooters was giving me a bad headache! We pretty much did all the sightseeing in one day and used the second day to plan the rest of our stay:
- visited the war museum; it was sad but also interesting to see Vietnam's side of the story about the war. 
- walked around city centre to see the architecture (reunification palace, Notre Dame Cathedral, post office building, opera house, and French Quarter), nothing super exciting
- went up to the sky tower for dinner, night view was pretty good, although not as impressive as Bangkok in my opinion
- checked out the backpacker street, nothing really interesting but lots of shops and travel agents; we noticed much cheaper travel deals offered here 
- on the last night, we watched a modern Vietnamese Acrobat show at the opera house, very interesting 

Everywhere we went, we are surrounded by thousands of motorbikes! AND, they are ruthless and thrive on your fear. Even Lars, who always believes in "showing no fear", was almost run over by drivers showing even less fear. By the time we reached Hanoi, we finally mastered the art of crossing roads. 

Although it's supposed to be a city for good food, we did not manage to find any really good restaurants. We had some average Pho, OK spring rolls but the best is probably the BBQ chicken with vermicelli. We need to go with locals next time. 

Hoi An - ancient little (China?) town, with more than 300 tailors! 
We flew into Da Nang and the hotel in Hoi An picked us up. We got the room with the view to the rice field, except there wasn't much rice at that time. :P Again, we hit the usual touristy spots: 

- walked around the old town and my first impression is that it reminds me a bit of George Town in Penang, Malaysia except the architecture is more consistent and uniform and better preserved. It feels like being in ancient China. A German couple, whom we met later, said they had a cockroach running up their legs and arms in Hoi An streets!

- checked out the Japanese-Covered Bridge, some Chinese Houses, temples and museums, none of which is super impressive (to me) though

- we also did a food tour and tried some of the typical local foods - White Rose dumplings, Ca Lau, sesame paste, coconut sticky rice, Vietnamese coffee, Banh Mi sandwich (best I have ever had), home made spring rolls and quail egg tarts, etc. The highlight was the night boat ride in the river with lanterns everywhere, very pretty! Hoi An at night is a must see in Vietnam. 

- stayed at the beach for a few hours; it's not a bad beach except its crowded with sun decks and local women chasing tourists to eat at their restaurants, especially if they want to use the sun chairs; we had good fresh shrimp spring rolls, but bad stir fry noodles. 

I couldn't resist the temptation of going to a tailor as there are so many around (allegedly over 300) and it seems to be THE thing to do in Hoi An. I had one trench coat made by a tailor within 24 hours and I made them going back and forth four times to get what I wanted. They are quite accommodating I have to say. In general, the quality of many tailors seems questionable, judging from the samples outside the shops. Apparently, it's a good place for women to get dresses, jackets, winter coats, etc. Bangkok probably is better for men to get suits though. 

Our hotel gave us bikes to ride around, but I chickened out on the first try as there was so much traffic on the road. On the second day, Lars was given a broken bike and he nearly fell from the bike! Strangely, the hotel staff were laughing at Lars and said he is too heavy - we did not found it funny that Lars could have hurt himself. Vietnamese people do like to laugh and smile a lot :P 

We went to TripAdvisor #1 ranked tea house called "Reaching Out". All the staff working there are disabled (e.g. deaf or  cannot speak) and customers are not supposed to talk. It's a good idea, but the coffee and tea are mediocre at best especially considering the premium prices. We thought at least this is for a good cause, but we later learned from a local that the owner pockets all the profit and the staff gets minimal wages only, contrary to their advertising. I also got a recommendation list from a highly ranked food tasting place, but it seems that the recommendations are mostly based on friendship and not quality. In general, services or business dealings in Vietnam, like in many place in South East Asia, seem a bit doggy to me. 

Hue - 2-day easy rider motorbike trip, a highlight for Lars  
Under our friend Dominik's excellent advise, we booked an Easy Rider tour with a guy called Mr. Thong for our transfer from Hoi An to Hue. I was sitting on the back of his motorbike, which has a comfortable back cushion, whereas Lars rode on his own. In theory, only people with Vietnamese driving license are allowed to drive motorbikes, but in reality, anyone can rent them at ridiculously cheap prices (at £5 to £8 a day!) and the police doesn't seem to care about driving licenses. Our 2 day itinerary included: 

- Marble mountain, where we followed some locals by mistake and ended up rock climbing to the top in extreme high temperature! We were sweating madly, but at least the view at the top was good. The Pagoda and the largest cave were the nicest. 

- Hai Van Pass: the bridge and the coastal road leading to the pass offer impressive views! I particularly like the basket boats which are so picturesque. This is the pass that was featured in Top Gear's Vietnam Special.

- a local waterfall full of Vietnamese people as it was a Sunday (over 400 tickets were sold that day whereas 20-30 is the norm any other day). Lars was the only Western person there and became very popular among the locals. He was asked a few times for photos and when Lars pretended to ask for money, these locals reached for their wallets and were willing to pay lol they also got really excited when we shared a kiss! 

- On the second day, we spent the whole day in the forest/mountains and made several stops at villages to visit the locals and minority people. The mountain ranges are beautiful. We visited another waterfall by the highway on the second day... I went for a quick dip in my bikini. Two teenagers came and I thought they also wanted to swim. It turned out that they only wanted to watch me :P 

Spending time with Mr. Thong itself was an interesting culture experience for us. He eats much louder than me, and he also eats A LOT! Lars didn't think that was possible before... Mr. Thong is a man of few words, but if you ask him a question, he will tell you what he knows. He strikes us as an honest and very hard working man. 

After we arrived at Hue, the old imperial city, we said our heart felt goodbye to Mr. Thong, who felt very uncomfortable when I gave him a hug. :P We felt slightly sad about leaving him after 2 days :( 

Riding motorbikes through beautiful scenery and witnessing the local life without other tourists was definitely a highlight of our trip in Vietnam. It was especially fun for Lars since he rode on his own. We got a bit of rain here and there, but generally got lucky with the weather.

We checked into Hue Serene Hotel, the staff of which turned out to be super helpful especially with booking bus tickets and arranging travel plans. We later stayed at their sister hotel in Hanoi. We did the typical touristy things in Hue: 
- tried Hue speciality foods (a different type of Pho, spring rolls etc.), which I prefer over Hoi An's 
- after "fierce" negotiations, we hired a private river boat (for less than $10) to visit the Pagoda and the Palace via Perfume river (according to Lars it's the river that was featured in the movie Full Metal Jacket). The river did not smell anything so not sure why it is called perfume river, but I quite like the scenery near the Pagoda. It reminds me of ancient China and the typical scenery in Kung Fu novels. But in general, there were no high rise or modern buildings along the river, making the landscape very natural.

I like the Pagoda and the Citadel (or the Purple City) very much. The latter reminds me of the forbidden city in Beijing. I see a lot of Chinese influence in Hue as all writings in the Pagoda and the Citadel are in Chinese. After some research, I realized that China has ruled Vietnam for over 1000 years, but the Vietnamese eventually took their country back after a millennium. I also thought of the Vietnam war and I respect Vietnamese people for their tenacity and determination! 

Sapa Valley - most spectacular rice terraces, Li's favourite of Vietnam 
Our hotel helped us to arrange Sapa Express bus tickets. The service is new as a new highway had just been completed a couple of months ago. Otherwise, we would have to take the bumpy overnight train, though it is still the most popular way to go to Sapa. When we first got off the bus, we were surrounded by local minority women offering accommodation, tours, souvenirs etc. They were a bit too aggressive for my liking and some of them won't let you go unless you tell them you already have hotels booked.

We were very lucky with the weather - the only day we had for trekking was sunny and warm (almost too hot). The day before and after were cloudy and rainy! We picked the more expensive, private option for guided trekking to avoid the typical touristy route - I still suspect the official tourist office, which arranged the tour, is getting a kickback from the tour operator, but I will never know. In Vietnam, I learned that not even the official ticket or tourist offices can be trusted. More on that later. 

Our local guide turns out to be quite professional and spoke very good English. We hiked 15 kilometres past beautiful scenery including the most beautiful terrace/village called Ta Van, which happened to be our guide's home village. We didn't run into any vendors on our route and saw only a few other tourists. However, we did get "harassed" a couple of times by, what I call, "the little Mafia of Sapa". They are young minority girls trying to sell you bracelets. If you buy one, the rest of the group will force you to buy from them as well. They typically sing, "buy one from me, buy one from me!" together and won't stop until you buy something. We saw one other tourist made the mistake of showing interest - soon all other girls swooped in! We found the best way is to just gave them something, be it candy or watermelon. They actually would say thank you and go away! 

After we reached the destination, we got picked up by a SUV who drove us back to the town. On our way back, we saw the most amazing and impressive view of the famous Sapa rice terraces. This road is surprisingly quiet - not many tourists.  

On the last day, we rented a scooter for half day from our hotel and drove to the Silver and Love Waterfall as well as Tom An Pass. The view along the way was very nice, but the weather was not the best. We even drove back to the amazing road again, but it did not look as spectacular as the day before because of the weather. When we were passing by the Ta Van village, we noticed someone was waving a flag at us and only later realised that he wanted us to stop and pay - that explains why there were almost no tourists! Oops, we didn't know. Luckily, they did not chase after us! 

I always have a soft spot for rice terraces, so of course I left Sapa with extreme awe and satisfaction! But it's true, Sapa can be very touristy. Even the waitress from a restaurant tried to get business for her husband! We think the best way is to just rent a scooter and drive around. There is no need to hike or do any guided tours.

Tam Coc near Ninh Binh - "Ha Long Bay on land", dramatic limestones on rice fields
Mr. Thong told us about Tam Coc so we squeezed this side trip into our already very busy itinerary. Our hotel in Hanoi sorted out the transfer for us and it turns out that we only paid $7 each to go with a day tour group that would normally cost $45. We even did some sightseeing (visited Hua Lou Temple) before being dropped off in Tam Coc town. 

We booked a family hotel in town and the youngest daughter Ginny, very pretty and the only one speaking English, looked after us. I don't think the family cares too much about money - we had to tell them a few things were not added to the bill when we checked out, and they let us use the scooter for half day for free. They also gave us a big bottle of water for the road on the last day. However, the other people in town were not so kind. In fact, I feel everyone else there was trying to rip off tourists. Even the Backpacker Hostel tried to charge us 10 times the price for a short taxi ride. I was smart and lucky enough to get a metered taxi! 

We rode around with the scooter from the hotel. The bike was a little too small so I had to sit on the rim and hold on to Lars very tight. Some roads require advance driving skills so it was a relief that we managed to return the bike in one piece. The tourist map here was almost a joke - the hand drawing bears no resemblance to reality and Google Maps wasn't of much help either, because it doesn't show any of the small roads... At the end we managed to visit the following places: 

- Bich Dong Pagoda: a nice little pagoda and the upper cave has a nice view, but the road leading to the Pagoda is much nicer ; some locals tried to trick us about admission and parking fees. 
- On the way back from the Pagoda, we passed by a large area of rice field. We had to stop to adore the sunset against the glowing yellow rice fields. We met a group of other backpackers including a Turkish lady who later gave us travelling tips on China! She has been to many more places in China than me!   
- We followed a side road by Ta Vi Temple. The road was in a bad condition, but the view was beautiful!  
- A river boat ride is a must in Tam Coc. We showed up really early and were almost the first ones. As usual, the locals tried to trick us with parking and I gave them the universal middle finger... The official ticket office also tried to short change us. We got two rowers instead of one, but at some point I had to tell them to shut up as they were talking really loud. We figured out half way that we need to tip them extra in order to go to THE spot to take the famous shot... 
- We visited Mua cave, but the main sight there is not the cave itself, but the viewpoint on the mountain.We climbed the million stairs in the hottest time of the day - lunch time! I nearly fainted, but the effort was worthwhile. The view up here is simply the BEST. 
- Under Ginny's recommendation, we drove a long way to visit Bird Park, but guess what, there were almost no birds! The cave there was quite interesting though - lots of bats and cave rock formation and the only way in was by boat.  

Riding with Lars on a scooter trough the yellow rice fields dotted by gigantic lime stones is another unforgettable highlight in Vietnam. 

Ha Long Bay - no wonder it's the number 1 attraction of Vietnam   
Any trip to Vietnam is not complete without going to Ha Long Bay. We got lucky with the transfer from Tam Coc to Ha Long Bay - we paid $20 and got a semi private transfer for a 5-hour ride, because there was no one else going. Our driver was driving really slow though, so by the time we arrived, we were just in time catching our cruise with Indochina Junk.

The 3-day cruise on the Prince IV was luxurious and the food was excellent and definitely a highlight. Our bed was also quite comfy and the cabin is spacious compared to other sailing trips we did. Our guide Wong was funny, but sometimes his jokes got lost in translation... we also met another young Russian couple on their honeymoon and an American family of three celebrating their anniversary & graduation. They gave me many cough candies as the humidity and heat in Vietnam was finally getting to me.

The cruise included some activities including visiting a fishing village, kayaking, beach BBQ, etc, but for me the main highlight was just to enjoy the beautiful view of thousands of limestones rising out of the ocean! Some rocks have very interesting shapes. Had we not seen limestones in Thailand and Tam Coc already, I would have been completely stunned by the view.

Hanoi - everything happens on the street in the Old Quarter
After we came back to Hanoi, we did very little sightseeing and mainly just walked around the Old Quarter, partly because of the heat and unbearable humidity. I felt I was very close to collapse because of the heat!

We only managed to visit Ngoc Son Temple on our last day in Vietnam, before heading over to Japan. It was interesting that the Japanese travel agent in Vietnam tried to overcharge us for the Japan Rail Pass, and the agent (who is Japanese) we spoke to has never been to Japan herself! We were so looking forward to the colder weather in Japan!

My impression of Hanoi is that everything happens on the street - people eat and drink on the street, they dry rice on the street, and they also fix bikes and motorcycles on the street; a typical street in the Old Quarter is filled with fruit/veggie stands, butchers selling unrefrigerated meat, tools, clothes, rice, people socialising, bike taxi drivers sleeping on the edge of their bikes without falling down...

I was on the hunt for the best Pho and Banh Mi in Hanoi and did achieve my goals. Thanks to Lindsay, I went to Pho Gia Truyen for a bowl of very fulfilling Pho. We followed TripAdvisor and went to Banh Mi 25. In here, we shared a table (literally just a small table with a few tiny chairs on the street) with another world traveller - a French scuba diver, who has been travelling for the last 5 years! The owner of the joint is so nice and kind. I had to insist on paying for a local drink, which he wanted to give us for free. He is the opposite of another street vendor who tried to charge me £5 for a drink that the locals paid £0.5 for!

In summary, we are super impressed by the varied and beautiful landscapes that Vietnam has to offer. It was difficult for us to travel and plan at the same time, as there is so much to see and to do. You can easily spend two months here in order to appreciate all the natural beauty of Vietnam. The best way to get around the country is undoubtedly by motorbikes. The Vietnamese people are warm in general and we have met some really kind and helpful people, especially with our hotel staff. However, many others will try to rip off tourists, but at least most of them will do it with a smile. :)